A bully can make ordinary activities like going to the bus stop or recess feel terrifying for kids. Bullying can leave lasting emotional damage, and in severe cases, it can lead to violent threats, destruction of property, or physical harm.

Recently, a video circulating online shows a young boy running toward a house to escape a bully who was attempting to rob him. The boy hurried inside while his dad confronted the bully, forcing him out of their home. The father sternly warned the teenager to stay away from his house in the future.

People have shared their thoughts on the situation across platforms like Facebook and TikTok.

Here are some of the reactions:

One person commented, “The fact that he leaves his house unlocked to provide a safe place for kids in need is truly commendable. I’m glad he handled the situation calmly, and no one got hurt. Hopefully, the bully learned his lesson.”

Devin wrote, “It’s great to see someone protecting kids without immediately turning to violence or involving the police.”

UPDATE

The father later posted an update explaining that his home is intentionally kept unlocked as a sanctuary for kids facing bullying. He emphasized that any child in trouble is welcome to seek refuge there.

Why Do Kids Bully?

Children bully others for various reasons. Often, bullies seek out someone they perceive as emotionally or physically weaker to assert their dominance, feel popular, or gain control. While some bullies may appear stronger, this isn’t always the case.

How to Handle Bullying at School

If your child is being bullied, it’s crucial they know it’s never their fault. Bullying behavior is more a reflection of the bully than the target.

Although it’s not your child’s responsibility to stop the bullying, having a plan can help prevent situations from escalating. Here are some strategies to equip your child with tools to handle difficult moments when thinking clearly might be tough.

Create a List of Responses

Help your child practice straightforward, non-confrontational phrases they can use to defuse bullying situations. Simple statements like, “Leave me alone,” “Back off,” or “That wasn’t cool” can work well.

Another approach could be saying, “Yeah, whatever,” and walking away. According to Michele Borba, Ed.D., author of The Big Book of Parenting Solutions, a comeback shouldn’t be insulting, as it may provoke the bully further.

Role-Playing Scenarios

Role-playing is an excellent way to boost your child’s confidence and prepare them for tough situations. You can take on the role of the bully while your child practices different responses until they feel ready. While practicing, encourage your child to use a firm, assertive voice.